Love is the little things you do

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Boikot Butik De Qaseh Manjung...

Aku bukan suke nak burukkan orang tapi she deserve it...Bengong! tu jer aku boleh cakap...
Masa aku ngan member mule2 hantar kain mulut punyerla manis, ckp mcm pro...kain 6 meter (saree n sutera vietnam) pun dia ckp ngam2 jer...itu aku tak kesahla manala tau dia jahit memang cantik...
Tunggu punyer tunggu janji 2 minggu nie dah masuk minggu ke3...member aku pun pegila kedai dia tanya...boleh dia jwb tgh sebok susun kedai takde masa nak jahit kain...member cakap okla tapi baju tu nak pakai raya haji nie(1 minggu lagi), pompuan tu cakap ok...
Sehari sebelum raya haji, kami pegi, dengan muka manisnyer pompuan  tu cakap tunggu nak buat silang pangkah jer lagi malam nie boleh  ambik...we all dah start hot tapi still boleh sabar, kalau dia tak buat aper2 lagi nak jer ambik balik kain tu...malam tu member aku makanla kat kedai area butik dgn harapan senang kalau dia call leh ambik...tunggu punyer tunggu, anak dia call ckp mak dia tgh jahit baju nnt dia call baru datang...SETAN!!!memang sah kitaorg kena tipu, dahlah tak berani ckp sndr...
Member aku singgah jugk dkt butik, dan dia tgk baju kitaorg mmg x siap...tp sbb malam raya kan, dia ckp kat pompuan gile tu jahitla baju tu dulu, esok kitaorg dtg ambik, yelah sian jugak kt dia nak raya...tapi kalau dasar penipu apa dia ckp pun  x pyh pakai...
Hasilnyer, stlh beribu kali tepon tak angkat...siap ugut nak buat laporan kat pengguna barula pompuan bengong tu ckp baju dah siap...
Hasilnyer...
Baju member aku 3 pasang sume tak padan...siap ader selai tak jahit span....benang bergulung2 dalam baju...butang jenis yang paling bodoh pernah aku jumper...dah member aku terus naik hantu...
Member aku terus serang tuan punyer kedai dan mintak balik duit upah...pompuan tu pun bagila dgn muka pucat...
Baju aku, lagi teruk...mmg saiz dah betul tapi dia buat baju tu mcm kain buruk...sikit pun xleh pakai...mahal tu aku beli...dengan kain pun terkoyak...selisih pun tak sampai sejengkal, macamana aku nak pakai...
Sakitnyer hati aku...tunggula...ada masa nanti aku nak jumper jugak owner dia...dahla skrg kalau aku lalu asyik tutup jer kedai, tepon xnk jawab...giler!!!!

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How To Get Through The Five Stages of Marriage...

Happily Wedded Life


All marital unions are not created equal — but they all go through some predictable stages. The timing may differ, and the way a couple manages the phase they’re in varies, but understanding the stages, says Rita DeMaria, Ph.D., a marriage and family therapist, gives you the tools you need to move through with your loving union intact.

Stage 1: Honeymoon

Usually the first year or two (or three, depending on the arrival of children as well as whether you lived together beforehand) is a passion-fueled period that’s all about the two of you and your intense focus on the attraction that made you want to walk down the aisle to begin with.

The Challenge

As much as this stage is full of lovely things like lust, affection and late-night romps, you’d be wise to also use this time to cement your sense of coupledom outside the bedroom. Who are you, as a couple? Spend time figuring out how you envision the rest of your marriage.

Stage 2: Settling In

This encompasses what DeMaria calls the realization stage, during which you learn things you might not have known (or happily ignored) about your spouse’s strengths, weaknesses and personal habits. Also in this post-honeymoon, pre-children stage, power struggles can arise as the two of you work toward both separate and shared goals.

The Challenge

As the shine fades a bit and reality sets in, you need to safely navigate what can be the first divorce danger zone of a young marriage, says Beverly Hyman, Ph.D., coauthor of How to Know If It’s Time to Go: A 10-Step Reality Test for Your Marriage. “After a couple of years, too many couples find that their values and goals aren’t always on the same page.”

Stage 3: Family

Welcome to the “meat” of marriage — the years most couples spend raising their families, buying a home, building and/or changing careers and all-around trying to hold a busy, crazy modern life together. “This can be another danger time,” says Hyman. “You may have a couple of kids, a mortgage, demanding jobs — this puts enormous strain on the resources of a marriage.”

The Challenge

“Pay close attention to your marriage,” advises Hyman. Don’t assume your relationship will be OK if one or both of you is on autopilot. “One thing that’s essential to building an enduring marriage is open, honest and tender communication,” she adds. Give yourselves a chance to communicate by — if you have to — scheduling together time or planning a regular date night.

Any Time: Explosion

This is less of a discrete stage than the others, says DeMaria, because it can happen at any time in a marriage. It’s when major life stressors interrupt the forward motion of your life together — such as fertility issues, a death in the family, a major illness or the loss of a job that leads to serious economic upheaval.

The Challenge

Seek support, both separately and together, depending on the situation. Never feel you have to power through problems on your own, or your marriage may suffer. Seek advice and guidance from friends, family members, religious counselors or professional therapists. “Pay attention to your own physical and emotional health and well-being,” says DeMaria.

Stage 4: Just You Two

Some call this stage the “empty nest,” but that implies that your home is devoid of love (i.e. empty) after your children grow up and leave. Hopefully, it’s not that way (though it can be). In the best scenario, this stage is about reunion, says DeMaria. “You are getting to know each other all over again, unpacking old baggage and having fun.”

The Challenge

Assuming you’ve weathered the earlier storms of marriage, this time can be exhilarating. But many couples find it a struggle to be together again with nothing else to concentrate on. Spend some time figuring out things you can do together and apart. If the issue is that you’ve ignored resentments toward your partner while you were busy with work and kids, you’ll need to be honest about these thorny problems, says Hyman.

Stage 5: You Did It!

You’ve enjoyed the lust, lived the love and come through the chaos of family life — without splitting up in the face of troubles. You’ve reached what DeMaria calls “completion,” a stage that retired, empty-nest couples who still enjoy being together can bask in for the rest of their lives.

The Challenge

Continue to show each other affection and attention. Remember, says Hyman, if you’ve remained a loving, harmonious couple, you won’t have an empty nest for long. Children and grandchildren gravitate back to the happy home they remember.

Friday, August 6, 2010

Sok sek

Adam : hik hik hik
Me : Kenapa Dam?
Adam : Adam tengok orang beranak...
Me : Kat maner?
Adam : Kat TV la...(oooo nie mesti cite Look Who's Talking semalam)
Me : Abis tu kenapa gelak...
Adam : Baby kuar ikut pusat kan ibu?
Me : A'aa...(sambil tersenyum sinis) ...Thank God dia cover ngan kain kalau tidak apela dia nak imagine...

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Birthday Present...

Actually hubby dah bagi me kamera Olympus as a present,
Tapi as usual...disebabkan hadiah tu awal sangat kira kensella...hihihi...
And atlast, he bought me a new watch!!!
I luv da colour, pink and white from Baby G... ;)
His present still pending...huhuhu ;P
Luv u so much dear!!! Muah!!!

Alya demam...

Alya demam, dah bawa jumpa pakar kanak-kanak, and he said demam biasa...
Tapi ini dah masuk hari ke empat, dan Alya masih demam lagi walaupun tak berapa kuat...
Tahun nie dah banyak kali Alya demam, risau sangat2...
Ya Allah, jauhilah anak-anakku dari penyakit yang merbahaya...Ameen...

Mangga Epal...

Lalalala...
Pohon mangga epal belakang umah aku berbuah dengan mewahnyer...
Walaupun aku tak berapa kemaruk sangat nak makan, tapi tetap rasa bahagia dengan rezeki Allah ini...
Seminggu nie, hampir tiap-tiap hari aku bawak pegi keje, punyerla seronok kawan-kawan mencicah...
Sampai ada tak puas lagi sampai sanggup datang umah...
Walau apapun aku memang suke orang datang kat umah, bukan senangkan...
Setiap tetamu itu adalah pembawa rezeki, semoga kami dikurniakan rezeki yang melimpah ruah...
Kesihatan yang baik...Jodoh berpanjangan dan hidup diberkati Allah selalu...ameen...
Nasib baikla owner rumah sebelum nie tanam pokok mangga tu...
Ada jugak tarikan rumah aku nie...

Rahsia...

10th July is Hubby Birthday... ;) dekat2 kan birthday we all...
nasib baik Birthday aku dulu, senangla balas dendam kalo dia tak ingat ;P

Alya : Ibu, nak tau rahsia tak?
Me : Nak..,
Alya : Moin beranak ibu kan, Ma pulak beranak ayah kan?
Me : A'a abis tu?
Alya : Lepas tu ibu ngan ayah pun besar, pastu kawenkan? sebab tula birthday ibu ngan ayah dekat-dekat...hikhikhik (sambil tersenyum penuh makna)
Me  : (Sambil bingung, itu macam punye rahsia, ada ka?)

Thursday, July 8, 2010

World Cup...


My team kalah this morning...
Tak boleh dah nak jerit, GOL!!! for Germany...
So sad ;(

Crawling Competition on 8th August 2010 at Giant Manjung...


Baby Caliph ade masa sebulan lagi nak practise crawling...
this boy baru jer dapat angkat badan...latest weight 8kg. not bad for 5 months baby...
Sempat ker nie...Good luck my son!
Tak menang pun xpe, ayah ibu, kakak dan adam will always suppport u dear...
Caiyok! Caiyok!

My Birthday...

2nd July 1980...My birth date...
;)

Friday, June 25, 2010

Homework...

Seronoknya weekend, seksa rasa nak habiskan 5 hari nie...hubby sebok tengok bola, anak-anak pulak sebok buat sepah rumah...
As usual aku suruhla si Alya buat homework...Dia cakap ok, pastu tak sampai 10 minit dia cakap siap!!! aik, homework aper sekejap sangat...aku pun tengokla buku dia...adela gambar butterfly cikgu suruh kaler...
Me: Dah siap kak?
Alya : A'aa, cepatkan? Cikgu selalu hairan kenapa si Nik (panggilan kat sekolah) cepat sangat buat kerja...memangla, kerja tu senang sangat...asyik kaler kaler...
Mmhh...betul jugak cakap budak nie, nasibla cikgu...lain kali bagila kerja sesuai ngan tahap, tak ker susah kalau dapt budak macam nie...nak demand sangat tak boleh jugak...nak jer aku tukar tadika...sabar sabar, tunggu tahun depanla...

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Nyum...nyum...nyum...

Nasib baik hubby dah balik, bestnyer dapat makan nasik goreng kampung panas-panas...sejak hubby pegi kl, dah 2 hari aku tak makan nasik malam-malam...tapi ader bagusnyer, takla naik sangat berat aku nanti...
Tengah kitaorang makan, si Alya buat sedih kat ayah dia...

Alya : Ayah, dah lama kakak tak makan nasik banyak-banyak...sekali sehari jer dapat makan...

amboi...pandai jer budak nie mengadu, nasib baik aku mem besar, kalaula aku orang gaji atau merangkap ibu tiri dia, tak ke haru aku kena marah...padahal, nasik jer yang dia tak makan...yang lain melantak macam biasa pulak...ibu nak nugget, ibu nak burger, ibu nak susu, nak roti, nak bla bla bla....nasib baik bapaknyer faham sangat perangai anak dia... selamat aku ;)

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Hubby is not around...

Pelikkan, macamana aku boleh tulis entry nie...selalu malas jer...
Actually Nick is not around, macam biasa aku memang tak boleh tido, ntahla...macam-macam aku fikir...rasa tak selamat jer...takut orang masuk rumah aku tak sedarla...lagi-lagi baru-baru nie rumah kawan aku kat area sini kena pecah masuk...ngeri seh...
Tapi sekarang dah pukul 4 lebih, tenang sikit jiwa aku...during this time, aku agak jiran-jiran aku dah start bangun, jadi niela correct time for me to sleep, kira tukar shif la nie...hahaha...
Selamat malam semua...

The story continue...

Adam : Ayah, what is this? (he ask curiously)
Hubby : Penis!
Adam : oooo
New lesson in the same moment...
Me : Adam, this is baby...(sambil dukung Khalif)
Me : And he is daddy (sambil point kat hubby)
Adam think for a while...and suddenly said...
Adam : DANIS!!!
Does he mean daddy got p***s? OMG ;P

Try to be fair...

Maybe dalam blog nie banyak aku story pasal Adam, is not that i love him more than others...But in this age, he is really something ;) ...This is another conversation yang susah aku nak lupe...
Adam ask me, sambil tunjuk kat kepala...
Adam : What is this?
Me : Head...(pastu tunjuk dekat tangan)
Adam : What is this?
Me : Hand...(pastu dia tunjuk lagi kat kaki)
Adam : What is this?
Me : Leg...(lastly sambil pegang "tut")
Adam : What is this?
Me : Hmm, this time you should ask Ayah...

I have to write something...

Mmhhh...dah lama aku tak jenguk blog yang dah bersawang nie...banyak sangat story nak share but end with nothing... ;)
Perkembangan anak-anak
ALYA
Si kakak nie dah masuk sekolah, since mood dia yang tak menentu, we decide hantar this girl kat Tadika Perpaduan jer...hahaha...aku taknak peristiwa last year berulang...penat jer aku hantar dia Tadika Islam Perak, last last tak sampai 3 bulan dia dah nak berenti...this time aku just nk tanamkan minat dia ke sekolah, pasal lain tak kesah la, janji dia constant...
Aku bukan tak ambik berat pasal pelajaran, aku tau ramai anak-anak orang lain sebaya dia dah kenal huruf, dah tau baca berdikit-dikit...tapi come on la, budak nie baru masuk 5 tahun, biarla dulu...But I swear, next year i'll send her in really good school...insya-Allah, harap-harap Si Alya nie tak jauh ketinggalan...





ADAM
He is getting smarter day by day...sometimes aku takut tak dapat nak didik budak nie in correct way...he has his own style...very particular in colour, marah kalau aku silap lap dia ngan towel pink...he said, pink for girl only, yer ker? Sampaikan, bila aku bagi susu perisa strawberry pun dia refuse nak minum...ntah ape ape jer...He really loves flash card...Dan paling aku tak boleh lupe this conversation between Adam and his dad...
Adam : What is this?
Hubby : 'Bra'
Adam : Isk ayah nie, bukan 'bra'. 'ZEBRA'...
hahaha, layan jugak Adam kat loyar buruk bapaknyer nie...






KHALIF
Si kecik nie dah nak masuk 6 bulan, tak sangka kejap jer masa berlalu...Dah boleh meniarap, angkat kepala, menjerit, naik walker dan aku dah start bagi dia solid food since aku tengok this boy asyik lapar jer...Dan yang paling buat aku happy, this boy suker sangat senyum...tak kira penat atau sebok macamana pun kalau tengok dia mesti automatik mood aku jadi baek... ;)

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Meowww...

Tengokla si Adam nie, suke sgt pretend jd kucing...x cukup lantai kerusi pun dia panjat...

Monday, March 1, 2010

Lumut Playground...

Bestnyer main taman...Nasib baik x jatuh masa buat stunt...

Sunday, February 28, 2010

Little Khalif...

This is the youngest of the family, baby Khalif...
Umur baru 50 hari...Cute huh?

Ultraboy Adam..

Ini my 2nd child, Adam...
Umur 2 tahun 2 bulan...
Faveret superhero...ULTRAMAN...

Pretty Alya...

Since this is my first entry, please meet my child...
We have three kids...
The first one is Alya...Umur 4 tahun 9 bulan...
Sekolah? hmm susah nak ckp....manja sgt kot...

E-journal to our family...

This blog is belong to me Mrs Nick...
Lebih kurang macam e-journal la...
We dedicated this blog especially to our family...
Since we are living far away, we hope journal nie dpt mengubat rindu korang...
We do miss u all, always...