Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Boikot Butik De Qaseh Manjung...
Aku bukan suke nak burukkan orang tapi she deserve it...Bengong! tu jer aku boleh cakap...
Masa aku ngan member mule2 hantar kain mulut punyerla manis, ckp mcm pro...kain 6 meter (saree n sutera vietnam) pun dia ckp ngam2 jer...itu aku tak kesahla manala tau dia jahit memang cantik...
Tunggu punyer tunggu janji 2 minggu nie dah masuk minggu ke3...member aku pun pegila kedai dia tanya...boleh dia jwb tgh sebok susun kedai takde masa nak jahit kain...member cakap okla tapi baju tu nak pakai raya haji nie(1 minggu lagi), pompuan tu cakap ok...
Sehari sebelum raya haji, kami pegi, dengan muka manisnyer pompuan tu cakap tunggu nak buat silang pangkah jer lagi malam nie boleh ambik...we all dah start hot tapi still boleh sabar, kalau dia tak buat aper2 lagi nak jer ambik balik kain tu...malam tu member aku makanla kat kedai area butik dgn harapan senang kalau dia call leh ambik...tunggu punyer tunggu, anak dia call ckp mak dia tgh jahit baju nnt dia call baru datang...SETAN!!!memang sah kitaorg kena tipu, dahlah tak berani ckp sndr...
Member aku singgah jugk dkt butik, dan dia tgk baju kitaorg mmg x siap...tp sbb malam raya kan, dia ckp kat pompuan gile tu jahitla baju tu dulu, esok kitaorg dtg ambik, yelah sian jugak kt dia nak raya...tapi kalau dasar penipu apa dia ckp pun x pyh pakai...
Hasilnyer, stlh beribu kali tepon tak angkat...siap ugut nak buat laporan kat pengguna barula pompuan bengong tu ckp baju dah siap...
Hasilnyer...
Baju member aku 3 pasang sume tak padan...siap ader selai tak jahit span....benang bergulung2 dalam baju...butang jenis yang paling bodoh pernah aku jumper...dah member aku terus naik hantu...
Member aku terus serang tuan punyer kedai dan mintak balik duit upah...pompuan tu pun bagila dgn muka pucat...
Baju aku, lagi teruk...mmg saiz dah betul tapi dia buat baju tu mcm kain buruk...sikit pun xleh pakai...mahal tu aku beli...dengan kain pun terkoyak...selisih pun tak sampai sejengkal, macamana aku nak pakai...
Sakitnyer hati aku...tunggula...ada masa nanti aku nak jumper jugak owner dia...dahla skrg kalau aku lalu asyik tutup jer kedai, tepon xnk jawab...giler!!!!
Masa aku ngan member mule2 hantar kain mulut punyerla manis, ckp mcm pro...kain 6 meter (saree n sutera vietnam) pun dia ckp ngam2 jer...itu aku tak kesahla manala tau dia jahit memang cantik...
Tunggu punyer tunggu janji 2 minggu nie dah masuk minggu ke3...member aku pun pegila kedai dia tanya...boleh dia jwb tgh sebok susun kedai takde masa nak jahit kain...member cakap okla tapi baju tu nak pakai raya haji nie(1 minggu lagi), pompuan tu cakap ok...
Sehari sebelum raya haji, kami pegi, dengan muka manisnyer pompuan tu cakap tunggu nak buat silang pangkah jer lagi malam nie boleh ambik...we all dah start hot tapi still boleh sabar, kalau dia tak buat aper2 lagi nak jer ambik balik kain tu...malam tu member aku makanla kat kedai area butik dgn harapan senang kalau dia call leh ambik...tunggu punyer tunggu, anak dia call ckp mak dia tgh jahit baju nnt dia call baru datang...SETAN!!!memang sah kitaorg kena tipu, dahlah tak berani ckp sndr...
Member aku singgah jugk dkt butik, dan dia tgk baju kitaorg mmg x siap...tp sbb malam raya kan, dia ckp kat pompuan gile tu jahitla baju tu dulu, esok kitaorg dtg ambik, yelah sian jugak kt dia nak raya...tapi kalau dasar penipu apa dia ckp pun x pyh pakai...
Hasilnyer, stlh beribu kali tepon tak angkat...siap ugut nak buat laporan kat pengguna barula pompuan bengong tu ckp baju dah siap...
Hasilnyer...
Baju member aku 3 pasang sume tak padan...siap ader selai tak jahit span....benang bergulung2 dalam baju...butang jenis yang paling bodoh pernah aku jumper...dah member aku terus naik hantu...
Member aku terus serang tuan punyer kedai dan mintak balik duit upah...pompuan tu pun bagila dgn muka pucat...
Baju aku, lagi teruk...mmg saiz dah betul tapi dia buat baju tu mcm kain buruk...sikit pun xleh pakai...mahal tu aku beli...dengan kain pun terkoyak...selisih pun tak sampai sejengkal, macamana aku nak pakai...
Sakitnyer hati aku...tunggula...ada masa nanti aku nak jumper jugak owner dia...dahla skrg kalau aku lalu asyik tutup jer kedai, tepon xnk jawab...giler!!!!
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
How To Get Through The Five Stages of Marriage...
Happily Wedded Life
All marital unions are not created equal — but they all go through some predictable stages. The timing may differ, and the way a couple manages the phase they’re in varies, but understanding the stages, says Rita DeMaria, Ph.D., a marriage and family therapist, gives you the tools you need to move through with your loving union intact.
Stage 1: Honeymoon
Usually the first year or two (or three, depending on the arrival of children as well as whether you lived together beforehand) is a passion-fueled period that’s all about the two of you and your intense focus on the attraction that made you want to walk down the aisle to begin with.
The Challenge
As much as this stage is full of lovely things like lust, affection and late-night romps, you’d be wise to also use this time to cement your sense of coupledom outside the bedroom. Who are you, as a couple? Spend time figuring out how you envision the rest of your marriage.
Stage 2: Settling In
This encompasses what DeMaria calls the realization stage, during which you learn things you might not have known (or happily ignored) about your spouse’s strengths, weaknesses and personal habits. Also in this post-honeymoon, pre-children stage, power struggles can arise as the two of you work toward both separate and shared goals.
The Challenge
As the shine fades a bit and reality sets in, you need to safely navigate what can be the first divorce danger zone of a young marriage, says Beverly Hyman, Ph.D., coauthor of How to Know If It’s Time to Go: A 10-Step Reality Test for Your Marriage. “After a couple of years, too many couples find that their values and goals aren’t always on the same page.”
Stage 3: Family
Welcome to the “meat” of marriage — the years most couples spend raising their families, buying a home, building and/or changing careers and all-around trying to hold a busy, crazy modern life together. “This can be another danger time,” says Hyman. “You may have a couple of kids, a mortgage, demanding jobs — this puts enormous strain on the resources of a marriage.”
The Challenge
“Pay close attention to your marriage,” advises Hyman. Don’t assume your relationship will be OK if one or both of you is on autopilot. “One thing that’s essential to building an enduring marriage is open, honest and tender communication,” she adds. Give yourselves a chance to communicate by — if you have to — scheduling together time or planning a regular date night.
Any Time: Explosion
This is less of a discrete stage than the others, says DeMaria, because it can happen at any time in a marriage. It’s when major life stressors interrupt the forward motion of your life together — such as fertility issues, a death in the family, a major illness or the loss of a job that leads to serious economic upheaval.
The Challenge
Seek support, both separately and together, depending on the situation. Never feel you have to power through problems on your own, or your marriage may suffer. Seek advice and guidance from friends, family members, religious counselors or professional therapists. “Pay attention to your own physical and emotional health and well-being,” says DeMaria.
Stage 4: Just You Two
Some call this stage the “empty nest,” but that implies that your home is devoid of love (i.e. empty) after your children grow up and leave. Hopefully, it’s not that way (though it can be). In the best scenario, this stage is about reunion, says DeMaria. “You are getting to know each other all over again, unpacking old baggage and having fun.”
The Challenge
Assuming you’ve weathered the earlier storms of marriage, this time can be exhilarating. But many couples find it a struggle to be together again with nothing else to concentrate on. Spend some time figuring out things you can do together and apart. If the issue is that you’ve ignored resentments toward your partner while you were busy with work and kids, you’ll need to be honest about these thorny problems, says Hyman.
Stage 5: You Did It!
You’ve enjoyed the lust, lived the love and come through the chaos of family life — without splitting up in the face of troubles. You’ve reached what DeMaria calls “completion,” a stage that retired, empty-nest couples who still enjoy being together can bask in for the rest of their lives.
The Challenge
Continue to show each other affection and attention. Remember, says Hyman, if you’ve remained a loving, harmonious couple, you won’t have an empty nest for long. Children and grandchildren gravitate back to the happy home they remember.
All marital unions are not created equal — but they all go through some predictable stages. The timing may differ, and the way a couple manages the phase they’re in varies, but understanding the stages, says Rita DeMaria, Ph.D., a marriage and family therapist, gives you the tools you need to move through with your loving union intact.
Stage 1: Honeymoon
Usually the first year or two (or three, depending on the arrival of children as well as whether you lived together beforehand) is a passion-fueled period that’s all about the two of you and your intense focus on the attraction that made you want to walk down the aisle to begin with.
The Challenge
As much as this stage is full of lovely things like lust, affection and late-night romps, you’d be wise to also use this time to cement your sense of coupledom outside the bedroom. Who are you, as a couple? Spend time figuring out how you envision the rest of your marriage.
Stage 2: Settling In
This encompasses what DeMaria calls the realization stage, during which you learn things you might not have known (or happily ignored) about your spouse’s strengths, weaknesses and personal habits. Also in this post-honeymoon, pre-children stage, power struggles can arise as the two of you work toward both separate and shared goals.
The Challenge
As the shine fades a bit and reality sets in, you need to safely navigate what can be the first divorce danger zone of a young marriage, says Beverly Hyman, Ph.D., coauthor of How to Know If It’s Time to Go: A 10-Step Reality Test for Your Marriage. “After a couple of years, too many couples find that their values and goals aren’t always on the same page.”
Stage 3: Family
Welcome to the “meat” of marriage — the years most couples spend raising their families, buying a home, building and/or changing careers and all-around trying to hold a busy, crazy modern life together. “This can be another danger time,” says Hyman. “You may have a couple of kids, a mortgage, demanding jobs — this puts enormous strain on the resources of a marriage.”
The Challenge
“Pay close attention to your marriage,” advises Hyman. Don’t assume your relationship will be OK if one or both of you is on autopilot. “One thing that’s essential to building an enduring marriage is open, honest and tender communication,” she adds. Give yourselves a chance to communicate by — if you have to — scheduling together time or planning a regular date night.
Any Time: Explosion
This is less of a discrete stage than the others, says DeMaria, because it can happen at any time in a marriage. It’s when major life stressors interrupt the forward motion of your life together — such as fertility issues, a death in the family, a major illness or the loss of a job that leads to serious economic upheaval.
The Challenge
Seek support, both separately and together, depending on the situation. Never feel you have to power through problems on your own, or your marriage may suffer. Seek advice and guidance from friends, family members, religious counselors or professional therapists. “Pay attention to your own physical and emotional health and well-being,” says DeMaria.
Stage 4: Just You Two
Some call this stage the “empty nest,” but that implies that your home is devoid of love (i.e. empty) after your children grow up and leave. Hopefully, it’s not that way (though it can be). In the best scenario, this stage is about reunion, says DeMaria. “You are getting to know each other all over again, unpacking old baggage and having fun.”
The Challenge
Assuming you’ve weathered the earlier storms of marriage, this time can be exhilarating. But many couples find it a struggle to be together again with nothing else to concentrate on. Spend some time figuring out things you can do together and apart. If the issue is that you’ve ignored resentments toward your partner while you were busy with work and kids, you’ll need to be honest about these thorny problems, says Hyman.
Stage 5: You Did It!
You’ve enjoyed the lust, lived the love and come through the chaos of family life — without splitting up in the face of troubles. You’ve reached what DeMaria calls “completion,” a stage that retired, empty-nest couples who still enjoy being together can bask in for the rest of their lives.
The Challenge
Continue to show each other affection and attention. Remember, says Hyman, if you’ve remained a loving, harmonious couple, you won’t have an empty nest for long. Children and grandchildren gravitate back to the happy home they remember.
Friday, August 6, 2010
Sok sek
Adam : hik hik hik
Me : Kenapa Dam?
Adam : Adam tengok orang beranak...
Me : Kat maner?
Adam : Kat TV la...(oooo nie mesti cite Look Who's Talking semalam)
Me : Abis tu kenapa gelak...
Adam : Baby kuar ikut pusat kan ibu?
Me : A'aa...(sambil tersenyum sinis) ...Thank God dia cover ngan kain kalau tidak apela dia nak imagine...
Me : Kenapa Dam?
Adam : Adam tengok orang beranak...
Me : Kat maner?
Adam : Kat TV la...(oooo nie mesti cite Look Who's Talking semalam)
Me : Abis tu kenapa gelak...
Adam : Baby kuar ikut pusat kan ibu?
Me : A'aa...(sambil tersenyum sinis) ...Thank God dia cover ngan kain kalau tidak apela dia nak imagine...
Saturday, July 17, 2010
Birthday Present...
Actually hubby dah bagi me kamera Olympus as a present,
Tapi as usual...disebabkan hadiah tu awal sangat kira kensella...hihihi...
And atlast, he bought me a new watch!!!
I luv da colour, pink and white from Baby G... ;)
His present still pending...huhuhu ;P
Luv u so much dear!!! Muah!!!
Tapi as usual...disebabkan hadiah tu awal sangat kira kensella...hihihi...
And atlast, he bought me a new watch!!!
I luv da colour, pink and white from Baby G... ;)
His present still pending...huhuhu ;P
Luv u so much dear!!! Muah!!!
Alya demam...
Alya demam, dah bawa jumpa pakar kanak-kanak, and he said demam biasa...
Tapi ini dah masuk hari ke empat, dan Alya masih demam lagi walaupun tak berapa kuat...
Tahun nie dah banyak kali Alya demam, risau sangat2...
Ya Allah, jauhilah anak-anakku dari penyakit yang merbahaya...Ameen...
Tapi ini dah masuk hari ke empat, dan Alya masih demam lagi walaupun tak berapa kuat...
Tahun nie dah banyak kali Alya demam, risau sangat2...
Ya Allah, jauhilah anak-anakku dari penyakit yang merbahaya...Ameen...
Mangga Epal...
Lalalala...
Pohon mangga epal belakang umah aku berbuah dengan mewahnyer...
Walaupun aku tak berapa kemaruk sangat nak makan, tapi tetap rasa bahagia dengan rezeki Allah ini...
Seminggu nie, hampir tiap-tiap hari aku bawak pegi keje, punyerla seronok kawan-kawan mencicah...
Sampai ada tak puas lagi sampai sanggup datang umah...
Walau apapun aku memang suke orang datang kat umah, bukan senangkan...
Setiap tetamu itu adalah pembawa rezeki, semoga kami dikurniakan rezeki yang melimpah ruah...
Kesihatan yang baik...Jodoh berpanjangan dan hidup diberkati Allah selalu...ameen...
Nasib baikla owner rumah sebelum nie tanam pokok mangga tu...
Ada jugak tarikan rumah aku nie...
Pohon mangga epal belakang umah aku berbuah dengan mewahnyer...
Walaupun aku tak berapa kemaruk sangat nak makan, tapi tetap rasa bahagia dengan rezeki Allah ini...
Seminggu nie, hampir tiap-tiap hari aku bawak pegi keje, punyerla seronok kawan-kawan mencicah...
Sampai ada tak puas lagi sampai sanggup datang umah...
Walau apapun aku memang suke orang datang kat umah, bukan senangkan...
Setiap tetamu itu adalah pembawa rezeki, semoga kami dikurniakan rezeki yang melimpah ruah...
Kesihatan yang baik...Jodoh berpanjangan dan hidup diberkati Allah selalu...ameen...
Nasib baikla owner rumah sebelum nie tanam pokok mangga tu...
Ada jugak tarikan rumah aku nie...
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